Recently I have decided that making my goal known is the only way to start working towards it, so I choose to place it here on the website.
I understand that trust is an integral part of hypnosis, and I seek to find women who are interested in first building that trust as we get to know each other. My interests in hypnosis run both to practical application as well as to method and technique. I seek to find others of like mind.
I have been working with hypnosis for 3 years, meeting people and creating the best methods for trance possible. I take hypnosis seriously, and took the time to get certified October 09 by the American Medial Association. This allowed me to understand hypnosis and explain it to others at the deepest level possible.
My interests in hypnosis focus on the idea of new experiences, learning about yourself or others by altering your view on life or your view of yourself during a trance. A session normally involves experiences some sort of transformation, possibly gaining a physical or mental trait you have desired or been curious about, then working with me as you explore this change you have gone through, then awakening back to reality so you can reflect and learn from what has occurred.
I am always open to making new friends, and since I can't get to know people who i can't talk to, please feel free to contact me. I check my messages every day, and make myself available whenever possible, so I will hopefully get to everyone who is interested within hours of contact. Hope to hear from you soon.
-Frost
Sunday, November 7, 2010
Monday, October 11, 2010
Solution to Failed Trance
Although the problem of not being good at trancing is a common issue, there recently have been many posts about it, so I want to give my two cents about problems, misconceptions, and what possible solutions are. These are opinions, based on my experience and training, but remember everyone is wired differently, and can think of more important reasons, or even better solutions.
1. You have to believe in hypnosis
So many people complain that a trance should work because they believe in hypnosis, and that is all that is required.
This is not true, saying you believe in hypnosis is just one of the steps to opening yourself up to a receptive state where hypnosis works. Many other things could still be preventing you, as will be seen in the next parts.
2. The voice seems to relax me
Due to the nature of hypnosis, a relaxing voice seems to be the best thing to have in a file or as a hypnotist, but this is not quite true. The best voice for hypnosis needs to do 2 things, 1 relax you of course, 2 keep your attention, so that even if you are drowsy, you will still listen. I will expand on this in part 6.
3. I want only some of this file to work, so I'll listen to it, and my mind will block out what I don't want
Trust. Trust is a huge part of hypnosis, you have to trust the voice you are listening to, so that even your unconscious will listen to it, as you begin to fade into unconsciousness. If anything breaks that trust, or even distracts you for a moment, your unconscious will either wake you up, or stop listening and just go to sleep. With enough time, and talking with a hypnotist, that trust can be formed for people that have a harder time trusting others. For many people, the scary thought of a file or hypnotist having alternate motives for putting them in trance breaks any trust they could have for the first several listens, or first sessions, even if they consciously say it is safe.
4.I fell asleep during the file, and woke up with no memory of the words said, was I tranced?
Most likely.....No. I know what you are saying, "Many success stories involve the person having amnesia of events that occurred while in trance", but those are the people that have great success with hypnosis all the time, and are going under for the relaxation, not because they expect some result or want to try something. If someone was trancing you into becoming or doing something you wanted so bad, you would most likely remember at least the most important points, because they have to have gone so deep for the trance to have really worked.
5. I really want this, shouldn't that make it easier?
Yes, and no. It is good to focus your mind on a goal, desire can fuel the fire to keep you motivated, but too many people turn the focus too obsession, and look constantly for new ways to get things instantly working. The best way to use focus, is to meditate (yes I know this is some deeper level stuff then hypnosis, but I still think it is effective), and look up ways to speak with your unconscious mind. You need to make sure you know what he/she wants, that he/she knows what you want, what you think the best way to get it is, and what they think the best way is. If it is something you want deeply enough, these conversations with your unconscious will go more smoothly, and you will come out with the best plan possible, based on both fact and desire.
6.What makes one induction better then another?
This is an important point. The thing that makes a file good for you, actually comes down to what you think of it. A file that is going to put you into trance needs to have a calm voice, with no interruptions or random sounds, maybe with some background noise, that will get you to that relaxed place, much like listening to a professor go on and on in a lecture (like I am sure many of us have been in). However, unlike a boring lecture, a hypnosis file needs to KEEP YOUR ATTENTION. I know that sounds confusing, "how you can be both relaxed and attentive?", so let me give an example:
You are sleeping soundly in your bed, it is the middle of the night, and you plan to keep sleeping for many more hours. Suddenly there is a very faint sound, your cell phone going off, inside of your bag, or on your shelf. It is so soft it would not wake up your neighbors, but to you, you are suddenly wide awake, and rushing to get the phone. What happened? Why did you awake but no one else did?
People are trained to wake up when something important to them makes a sound they are familiar with. Be it their cell phone ring, a baby cry, a fire alarm (Though those things can be really loud). Their unconscious minds are still listening, even though their conscious minds are fast asleep. Hypnosis uses the same method.
A hypnotist voice needs to be something the person is familiar with, something they view as important, that way even if they are dozing off, their unconscious is still listening to the words, allowing themselves to be guided along, and instead of being given the command to simply wake up, the hypnotist can guide them to doing, so many different things.
This is the end of my thoughts for now, but feel free to comment to add more, to argue points, or even post success you have had since taking the time to read this *wink*.
1. You have to believe in hypnosis
So many people complain that a trance should work because they believe in hypnosis, and that is all that is required.
This is not true, saying you believe in hypnosis is just one of the steps to opening yourself up to a receptive state where hypnosis works. Many other things could still be preventing you, as will be seen in the next parts.
2. The voice seems to relax me
Due to the nature of hypnosis, a relaxing voice seems to be the best thing to have in a file or as a hypnotist, but this is not quite true. The best voice for hypnosis needs to do 2 things, 1 relax you of course, 2 keep your attention, so that even if you are drowsy, you will still listen. I will expand on this in part 6.
3. I want only some of this file to work, so I'll listen to it, and my mind will block out what I don't want
Trust. Trust is a huge part of hypnosis, you have to trust the voice you are listening to, so that even your unconscious will listen to it, as you begin to fade into unconsciousness. If anything breaks that trust, or even distracts you for a moment, your unconscious will either wake you up, or stop listening and just go to sleep. With enough time, and talking with a hypnotist, that trust can be formed for people that have a harder time trusting others. For many people, the scary thought of a file or hypnotist having alternate motives for putting them in trance breaks any trust they could have for the first several listens, or first sessions, even if they consciously say it is safe.
4.I fell asleep during the file, and woke up with no memory of the words said, was I tranced?
Most likely.....No. I know what you are saying, "Many success stories involve the person having amnesia of events that occurred while in trance", but those are the people that have great success with hypnosis all the time, and are going under for the relaxation, not because they expect some result or want to try something. If someone was trancing you into becoming or doing something you wanted so bad, you would most likely remember at least the most important points, because they have to have gone so deep for the trance to have really worked.
5. I really want this, shouldn't that make it easier?
Yes, and no. It is good to focus your mind on a goal, desire can fuel the fire to keep you motivated, but too many people turn the focus too obsession, and look constantly for new ways to get things instantly working. The best way to use focus, is to meditate (yes I know this is some deeper level stuff then hypnosis, but I still think it is effective), and look up ways to speak with your unconscious mind. You need to make sure you know what he/she wants, that he/she knows what you want, what you think the best way to get it is, and what they think the best way is. If it is something you want deeply enough, these conversations with your unconscious will go more smoothly, and you will come out with the best plan possible, based on both fact and desire.
6.What makes one induction better then another?
This is an important point. The thing that makes a file good for you, actually comes down to what you think of it. A file that is going to put you into trance needs to have a calm voice, with no interruptions or random sounds, maybe with some background noise, that will get you to that relaxed place, much like listening to a professor go on and on in a lecture (like I am sure many of us have been in). However, unlike a boring lecture, a hypnosis file needs to KEEP YOUR ATTENTION. I know that sounds confusing, "how you can be both relaxed and attentive?", so let me give an example:
You are sleeping soundly in your bed, it is the middle of the night, and you plan to keep sleeping for many more hours. Suddenly there is a very faint sound, your cell phone going off, inside of your bag, or on your shelf. It is so soft it would not wake up your neighbors, but to you, you are suddenly wide awake, and rushing to get the phone. What happened? Why did you awake but no one else did?
People are trained to wake up when something important to them makes a sound they are familiar with. Be it their cell phone ring, a baby cry, a fire alarm (Though those things can be really loud). Their unconscious minds are still listening, even though their conscious minds are fast asleep. Hypnosis uses the same method.
A hypnotist voice needs to be something the person is familiar with, something they view as important, that way even if they are dozing off, their unconscious is still listening to the words, allowing themselves to be guided along, and instead of being given the command to simply wake up, the hypnotist can guide them to doing, so many different things.
This is the end of my thoughts for now, but feel free to comment to add more, to argue points, or even post success you have had since taking the time to read this *wink*.
Thursday, September 9, 2010
New Phone
Now to go from my serious last post, to something a little more light hearted. I got a new phone, so that means my old phone has to go. I had saved some really old text messages, so I am going to post them here so I still feel I have them in some form.
"Got the wii. 2 more mirror pieces left and i have 3 bomb bags and 6 hidden skills. Lightning misses u" -Carlos 12/28/06
"Happy Valentine's Day Bro. Hope you're not feeling sick anymore." -Sister 2/14/07
"HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY! SEE YA LATA TONIGHT" -Sister 2/7/08
"Merry Christmas! :) <3" -Jessica K. 12/25/08
"Hey, this is Stephanie. U helped me out last quarter for ics21.just wanted to thank u4 ur help. I passed the class!Hope ur quarter goes well. Take care!" -Stephanie 1/21/09
"Happy Birthday son. Wow, no longer a teenager. I hope you are having a great day." -Dad 2/7/09
"Ok. I have a pink umbrella. Waiting for the tram right now." -Ebbie 4/20/09
"Sorry Baxter! This is sabel. Tonight actually wasn't good (for hypnosis) I'm swamped with hw:(" -Sabel 10/26/09
"Happy new years! i hope ur 2009 was a good one... I also hope ur 2010 is wonderful one!! I miss you and love u! :) *hugs and kisses*" -CF 1/1/10 11mins into the year
"I'm alright. Very little actually happened because of the earthquake, although I did get a few phonecalls. xD Anyways, I'm off to class." -Steven 4/5/2010
"Got the wii. 2 more mirror pieces left and i have 3 bomb bags and 6 hidden skills. Lightning misses u" -Carlos 12/28/06
"Happy Valentine's Day Bro. Hope you're not feeling sick anymore." -Sister 2/14/07
"HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY! SEE YA LATA TONIGHT" -Sister 2/7/08
"Merry Christmas! :) <3" -Jessica K. 12/25/08
"Hey, this is Stephanie. U helped me out last quarter for ics21.just wanted to thank u4 ur help. I passed the class!Hope ur quarter goes well. Take care!" -Stephanie 1/21/09
"Happy Birthday son. Wow, no longer a teenager. I hope you are having a great day." -Dad 2/7/09
"Ok. I have a pink umbrella. Waiting for the tram right now." -Ebbie 4/20/09
"Sorry Baxter! This is sabel. Tonight actually wasn't good (for hypnosis) I'm swamped with hw:(" -Sabel 10/26/09
"Happy new years! i hope ur 2009 was a good one... I also hope ur 2010 is wonderful one!! I miss you and love u! :) *hugs and kisses*" -CF 1/1/10 11mins into the year
"I'm alright. Very little actually happened because of the earthquake, although I did get a few phonecalls. xD Anyways, I'm off to class." -Steven 4/5/2010
Wednesday, September 8, 2010
Trust
I have a file I use with just about everyone I talk to. In this file there is, as I always describe it as having, "A deepening trigger, an awakening trigger, and a suggestion trigger". That third one is the one that is both hardest to pin down, but the most important to make clear. In the file, it is a trigger called "I command..." and basically you have to do anything I suggest that follows those words. I manly use it for some basic tests, because I assume with a trigger that flimsy, the suggestions would only go so deep. After those basic tests to see what sticks, what doesn't, as well as what the person likes, and things they don't like, I assume we can then have a full session on that subject, and everyone is happy.
However, that is not what has happened once or twice, happening most recently yesterday.
After giving the person the file, and file description, they went off to listen to it. Upon finally hearing back from her, she said that trigger could be used to lure them into my submission forever, and I broke their trust, and blocked me.
Is this my fault? Should I have made things more clear? I assume that the trigger is not weak enough to even do the things they claimed, but I do see where the fears come from, even though making slaves is the furthest thing away from my mind.
Should I chalk this up to someone being oversensitive, or should I make some kind of warning from now on about my file, and the plan I have for the person? I don't normally like to plan too far ahead till we have talked for a while, so I can see if I like the person. but if I am making a bad first impression with my file, will they even want to talk to me? What do you think?
-Frost
Here is the link
A version without an awaken at the end
However, that is not what has happened once or twice, happening most recently yesterday.
After giving the person the file, and file description, they went off to listen to it. Upon finally hearing back from her, she said that trigger could be used to lure them into my submission forever, and I broke their trust, and blocked me.
Is this my fault? Should I have made things more clear? I assume that the trigger is not weak enough to even do the things they claimed, but I do see where the fears come from, even though making slaves is the furthest thing away from my mind.
Should I chalk this up to someone being oversensitive, or should I make some kind of warning from now on about my file, and the plan I have for the person? I don't normally like to plan too far ahead till we have talked for a while, so I can see if I like the person. but if I am making a bad first impression with my file, will they even want to talk to me? What do you think?
-Frost
Here is the link
A version without an awaken at the end
Saturday, September 4, 2010
Broken Computer
Hey guys, sorry to not post much since I got back from Japan. Still getting used to my new place, and enjoying my few last days off before school starts.
Unfortunately some unknown agent has caused my main desktop computer to crash, and I am currently looking into both what caused it, and how much it is going to cost.
If you have wanted a session or a file, now is a really good time to ask because I am really in need of the cash. I am attaching my tip jar once again, only tip if we did something, but please think about it if you can.
CLICK HERE and send to lsmfx1@hotmail.com
PS if you are having trouble sending money directly, try using the instant payment below, thought takes out a small fee :(
Unfortunately some unknown agent has caused my main desktop computer to crash, and I am currently looking into both what caused it, and how much it is going to cost.
If you have wanted a session or a file, now is a really good time to ask because I am really in need of the cash. I am attaching my tip jar once again, only tip if we did something, but please think about it if you can.
CLICK HERE and send to lsmfx1@hotmail.com
PS if you are having trouble sending money directly, try using the instant payment below, thought takes out a small fee :(
Thursday, August 12, 2010
Speeding Ticket
I can't remember if I mentioned it on here, but back in June I was visiting my parents, and on the way there I got a speeding Ticket. This is the first ticket of any kind I had gotten, and I know I was going too fast, but I wasn't expecting there to be such a huge fine. There is a little extra cost cause I am going to school to keep the ticket off my record. For the ticket, school authorization, and school itself, it is coming out to be around 400$. Sorry to ask for tips again after coming back from Japan, and not saying I can't pay for it myself, but lets just say every tip helps, thanks again.
CLICK HERE and send to lsmfx1@hotmail.com
PS if you are having trouble sending money directly, try using the instant payment below, thought takes out a small fee :(
PS: Working on a whole new blog just for my Trip to Japan, hopefully it will be up soon.
CLICK HERE and send to lsmfx1@hotmail.com
PS if you are having trouble sending money directly, try using the instant payment below, thought takes out a small fee :(
PS: Working on a whole new blog just for my Trip to Japan, hopefully it will be up soon.
Friday, July 16, 2010
BUSY!!!
I am gonna be so busy these next few days, really don't expect to see me till Wednesday. Once I get back I'll replace this post with details, till then see ya around!
-Frost Endwood
-Frost Endwood
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